This is my 700th post on this little ‘ole blog. Seven hundred little pieces of my brain/heart/soul are now flouncing about The Internet. Sometimes it makes me a little queasy to think about. Most of the time it gives me happy butterflies in my stomach. In the last several years I have become a better writer, have honed the ability to think outside the box, and have increased my vocabulary–both legit and acronym-ed and have begun to at least contemplate my skills as a very amateur photographer. I attribute these directly to blogging. That is all lovely and all, but the biggest benefit of this little Blogging Experiment has been the relationships I have developed with so many wonderful people around the world.
I started reading Janet’s blog before I started blogging…mostly because as the Queen of Love Is Blonde she had the URL I wanted. Initially, I was bugged that someone had already stolen my idea, but after reading her for, oh, 3 minutes, I quickly decided she was lovely and absolutely the best owner of that particular site. Over the years we’ve exchanged dozens of emails and comments and I think she knows more about me than many of my “real life” friends. It was absolutely delightful to finally be able to meet her. And who knew, but we could probably pass as sisters most of the time.
We chatted about families, friends, boys, relationships, and how the mountains in The West are far superior to any others. It was just like meeting any girlfriend for lunch. Goodness, she is delightful!
I have also been reading Mel‘s blog–full of book reviews, art, recipe’s and her travel adventures–for a few years now and we have exchanged vents and complaints on boys for ages now. Mel showed me around Georgetown and where one should go for the best cupcakes.

I am well aware that I have been woefully absent from my little corner of the Internet the last several weeks. For heaven’s sake, I’ve been back from Washington DC for a month (with two other trips in the meantime) and I still haven’t finished blogging all my adventures! Here’s the thing, lately I have felt frightfully censored. Some of my “real life” friends have been reading far too much into my writing, and others have passed my blog address to people I’d rather not read my inner thoughts. There is drama all over the place and I feel like I can’t talk about anything important, and I don’t want to talk about fluff.
I made a resolve today. I will not let my audience, or potential audience, have such a say in my writing. I will not be mean-spirited or cruel, but I will be honest. And if you (you know who you are) don’t like it, don’t agree, or are otherwise offended, you can just go ahead and close this window, delete me from your feed and let me be. Alrighty? Alrighty.
That being said, please anticipate a rash of updates, I need to churn out the rest of my Washington DC thoughts, whirl through a lovely weekend in San Francisco, and at least touch on a windy-but-otherwise-relaxing weekend in Utah’s Red Rock Country. You’ve been warned.
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Heidi,
What an incredible site/blog! I see you’re coming to South Dakota, soon. I found your site when looking for a recipe for Aloha Chicken…thanks.
Comment by April 2010 May 30 @ 6:45 pmAlways happy when you update your blog, Heidi!
I had a similar thing a couple of years ago when EVERYONE in my ward/neighborhood started blogging. I’d already been blogging for a couple of years. It really freaked me out a bit (ok, a LOT) to know some of the people who were reading my blog…The anonimity of the Internets had been comforting to me. I felt a TON of self-censorship.
Then I wrote that blog post about my reading tastes…and quite a few of my neighborhood/ward people stopped leaving comments on my blog after that, and I thought…you know, I don’t care. I’m going to write how I want to write, and what, and if it really bugs them…they don’t have to read.
Looking forward to more updates! Your trips sound lovely!
Comment by Amy So 2010 May 30 @ 11:14 pmI think that’s a fair call! Why have a blog if you can’t write (fairly) freely? Go Heidi, go!
And Janet is adorable. You guys really do look like sisters!
Comment by Aly 2010 May 31 @ 2:41 amAnd also, WHEN can I meet you in person?
Comment by Aly 2010 May 31 @ 2:42 amAm envious that you got to meet Melanie. (Although I shouldn’t as I live a lot closer to her than you do.)
And I have fears about certain people discovering my blog. Not because I write about them, but because I don’t think they would “get it.” And then they would come to wrong conclusions, take offense at what I am saying, etc. Um basically what you are experiencing now. Which is why I basically keep every thing blog related very separate from things like facebook, etc.
Sorry about all the drama. I hope you can rally and continue to post about everything and anything you want to.
Comment by Lady Susan 2010 May 31 @ 6:04 pmAwww I feel so honored to get a spot on the 700th post! I loved meeting you, felt like I was hanging with an old friend
Come back anytime!!
PS Can we still be friends if I admit I’ve never been to the Library of Congress? I only live 14 blocks from it too, shame on me.
Comment by janet 2010 May 31 @ 8:18 pmCongrats on 700!!!! Keep on churning out these posts, I love reading your blog
Comment by Inna 2010 May 31 @ 8:59 pmI’ve been struggerling with this feeling too, I’ve not bloged for about 6 months now & I just don’t know if I will, and the longer I leave it the more likely.
Comment by grungedandy 2010 June 1 @ 7:29 amBut I’m glade your still blogging dispite all the drama thats happened it’s fun to hear about the places you go as I’m highly unlikley to be able go to them! anyway hope all is well seeya hugya *G*
So jealous of all your fun meet ups! And it just doesn’t get better than the Library of Congress, does it?
Comment by Janssen 2010 June 3 @ 6:23 am