Comments on: True or False: heidikins is willing and able to upheave everything for a little peace and quiet. http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/ Life, Love, and the Pursuit of Stilettos Fri, 10 Feb 2012 07:58:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: sanya http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/#comment-7358 Mon, 14 Dec 2009 13:36:09 +0000 http://heidikins.com/?p=1913#comment-7358 I also clean and bake when I’m stressed out. And exercise, but that doesn’t happen quite as often as the first two. Go figure. Bad for my body but good for my apartment? Whatever. Neuroses are terrible. They plague me, too. You will figure it out. If this life gets to be too much for you, you will change it. It will be okay!

]]> By: SoMi's Nilsa http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/#comment-7356 Fri, 11 Dec 2009 17:32:27 +0000 http://heidikins.com/?p=1913#comment-7356 And now you know why I went running like crazy away from my previous consulting life. 4 days a week on the road traveling to places that usually involved long plane rides. It was insane. I lost my grounding. And was so happy to reclaim it again.

]]> By: Uzi http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/#comment-7355 Fri, 11 Dec 2009 16:25:19 +0000 http://heidikins.com/?p=1913#comment-7355 haven’t you realized yet that that weekly “injection” is a little bit of Uzi on a Saturday afternoon?

]]> By: grungedandy http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/#comment-7354 Thu, 10 Dec 2009 15:13:22 +0000 http://heidikins.com/?p=1913#comment-7354 Yep so here’s my 2 pence worth, you need to give yourself a break, stop trying to do it all in one go, new job, change in home /living style, trying to find “the One” plus all the other things we need to do house work / shopping keeping in contact with friends & family!
Hey just breath! You will find your rhythm! But you need to give yourself time to become acclimatised to the change rather than stressing your self out!
Get a piece of clean crisp paper – go on go get it now I’ll wait………. Oh and a pen………………..
Now fold the paper in half lengthwise, so you have 2 long columns on the left hand side start writing all the things that need to be done i.e. laundry, food shop ironing, extra
Then next all the things you want to do i.e. see friends, travel, extra

Now in the other Colum beside the list try to think of ways to either combine or out source or things that you can do at the new place

Order groceries on line, borrow the washing machine & iron at work and do a little after you’ve finished for the day.

Brain storm a bit & see what you can come up with!

Now see if you can implement some of these ideas, they may not work but they may spark off another idea, I personnel would (and have) put the dating thing on a back burner till you feel more balanced until you’ve found your rhythm you might be coming across a little flustered & may scare him off.
And as a side note do you think you could cope with a boyfriends as well as everything else at the moment, they take up a lot of time I seem to remember either seeing them or thinking about them! LoL
Anyway it’s just some ideas to maybe help (I think it’s more like 2 quid’s worth though LoL) Seeya Hugya *G*

]]> By: Cheeky Monkey http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/#comment-7352 Thu, 10 Dec 2009 03:32:24 +0000 http://heidikins.com/?p=1913#comment-7352 Love. Love is nice. Even if it’s not always like the movies forever and ever, it’s still something we crave.

I don’t know, man. I think longing is the human condition. I just haven’t figured out why.

]]> By: nancypearlwannabe http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/#comment-7351 Thu, 10 Dec 2009 01:11:22 +0000 http://heidikins.com/?p=1913#comment-7351 I always think that I will enjoy big exciting changes until they happen and I find myself thinking, why on earth did I ever think I wanted this?! I am a creature of comforts and I like stability and routine. I don’t think that has to be mutually exclusive of fun and spontaneity though!

You’re doing great, lady. Hang in there.

]]> By: Sra http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/#comment-7350 Wed, 09 Dec 2009 20:55:28 +0000 http://heidikins.com/?p=1913#comment-7350 Well, nobody wants to stop progressing in life, so in that sense, none of us wants to be stable. But it is nice to have some things that are stable. A place to call home, a partner to love and support you, good friends, family, delicious foods. Delicious, delicious foods. Mmm.

]]> By: Nan http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/#comment-7349 Wed, 09 Dec 2009 20:48:18 +0000 http://heidikins.com/?p=1913#comment-7349 “Probably not innumerable, probably closer to six.” Hee. Hee. If you can still have humor all is not lost.

]]> By: Allie http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/#comment-7348 Wed, 09 Dec 2009 19:57:53 +0000 http://heidikins.com/?p=1913#comment-7348 If you work it out, let me know!

]]> By: Jess http://heidikins.com/2009/12/09/true-or-false-heidikins-is-willing-and-able-to-upheave-everything-for-a-little-peace-and-quiet/#comment-7347 Wed, 09 Dec 2009 19:25:49 +0000 http://heidikins.com/?p=1913#comment-7347 I think you are doing so well coping with the challenging work schedule and upheaval you’re dealing with at the moment. Maybe the first step in letting go of neuroses is learning to cut yourself some slack?

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