Comments on: Just gettin’ it off my chest http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/ Life, Love, and the Pursuit of Stilettos Thu, 11 Mar 2010 01:40:11 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Andrea http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2047 Andrea Tue, 05 Feb 2008 02:38:50 +0000 http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2047 You go! I feel better!! You go! I feel better!!

]]> By: cady http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2045 cady Mon, 04 Feb 2008 21:00:54 +0000 http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2045 way to be. i always feel better after i vent. i bet you feel much better now. :) way to be. i always feel better after i vent. i bet you feel much better now. :)

]]> By: alyndabear http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2039 alyndabear Sun, 03 Feb 2008 15:58:34 +0000 http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2039 Thank goodness January is over. Now my awesome blogger can get on with her life. If anymore people bug you, send 'em to me. *bears teeth* Thank goodness January is over. Now my awesome blogger can get on with her life. If anymore people bug you, send ‘em to me. *bears teeth*

]]> By: Allie http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2037 Allie Sun, 03 Feb 2008 00:52:31 +0000 http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2037 I think that is a really fantastic idea, your 7-day rule. It really makes sense. I will adopt it if that's ok with you! I think that is a really fantastic idea, your 7-day rule. It really makes sense. I will adopt it if that’s ok with you!

]]> By: Laurel http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2034 Laurel Sat, 02 Feb 2008 22:14:02 +0000 http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2034 I am continually amazed by the number of grown-ups I meet who seem to possess actually no skills for interacting with other grown-ups. Sometimes these people count as really, seriously grown-up... like even OLD... and they still pull this crap. How have they even survived. I think anonymous letters are fine and everything, but if you'd like me to punch any of those So-and-So's, just let me know. I am continually amazed by the number of grown-ups I meet who seem to possess actually no skills for interacting with other grown-ups. Sometimes these people count as really, seriously grown-up… like even OLD… and they still pull this crap. How have they even survived.

I think anonymous letters are fine and everything, but if you’d like me to punch any of those So-and-So’s, just let me know.

]]> By: Gwen http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2033 Gwen Sat, 02 Feb 2008 13:13:44 +0000 http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2033 I'm glad you feel better! lol. I don't really run into crap like this too often, but that might be because I have few friends, which is, you know, another way to do it. I’m glad you feel better! lol.

I don’t really run into crap like this too often, but that might be because I have few friends, which is, you know, another way to do it.

]]> By: Jen http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2020 Jen Fri, 01 Feb 2008 17:53:31 +0000 http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2020 I wish someone had told me earlier this is ranting month! I could have been doing this every day! Some people may think it's cold to be very blunt about relationships. I think it's right to do so. If you are either "in" a relationshop or just talking about relationships with other we have to put up with, it's always best to be up front. Re: being "in" a relationship, there is no room for passive-aggressive, I have found. Either you're "in" or "out." If you're "in" then you have to act like it. If you don't act like it, you're "out." That's it. The person who is "in" will just accept it and go with it, and be fine. The phoney-baloney will try to make it all your fault, and not accept responsibility for the relationship. I wish someone had told me earlier this is ranting month! I could have been doing this every day!

Some people may think it’s cold to be very blunt about relationships. I think it’s right to do so. If you are either “in” a relationshop or just talking about relationships with other we have to put up with, it’s always best to be up front. Re: being “in” a relationship, there is no room for passive-aggressive, I have found. Either you’re “in” or “out.” If you’re “in” then you have to act like it. If you don’t act like it, you’re “out.” That’s it. The person who is “in” will just accept it and go with it, and be fine. The phoney-baloney will try to make it all your fault, and not accept responsibility for the relationship.

]]> By: Katie http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2019 Katie Fri, 01 Feb 2008 15:50:25 +0000 http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2019 Good for you! Things like that will only drag you down so it's best just to get rid of them and move on. You must feel a million times better :) Good for you! Things like that will only drag you down so it’s best just to get rid of them and move on. You must feel a million times better :)

]]> By: Z http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2018 Z Fri, 01 Feb 2008 01:07:11 +0000 http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2018 I'm sure it felt great to let that all out! I would, too, but... other than my headache (dear headache, GO AWAY!) right now I'm doing pretty OK with most relationships (at least from my side). That could all change in a moment - I, too, have a number of incredibly passive-aggressive and/or emotionally retarded people inhabiting my world - but for now? It's OK, and I am profoundly grateful for that! I’m sure it felt great to let that all out! I would, too, but… other than my headache (dear headache, GO AWAY!) right now I’m doing pretty OK with most relationships (at least from my side). That could all change in a moment – I, too, have a number of incredibly passive-aggressive and/or emotionally retarded people inhabiting my world – but for now? It’s OK, and I am profoundly grateful for that!

]]> By: katelin http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2017 katelin Fri, 01 Feb 2008 00:12:06 +0000 http://heidikins.com/2008/01/31/just-gettin-it-off-my-chest/#comment-2017 I say rant away, and start February as the new year, that's my plan at least, haha. I say rant away, and start February as the new year, that’s my plan at least, haha.

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